THINGS I WILL TELL MY DAUGHTER-
At 7-its okay if you like blue more than pink.
it’s okay if you like cars more than dolls. You get to decide what you like.
At 14- it’s okay to feel conscious about yourself. but what’s not oaky is someone else making you feel bad for not conforming to their standards of “beauty”
At 16, Please sleep if he didn’t text you tonight. it’s not worth it. to make your nights sleepless just for a person who didn’t give a shit about you! her mom is always there for her. I told her that you are too young for all this sadness.
At 17- while marks matter, but you matter more than marks. don’t ever get so blinded by the rate race that you forget to smile.
At 18- yes he will break your heart. or maybe you will break his ! but you will cry, anyway, I will be in the next room with ice-cream and chocolates.
At 20, You will fall in love again, maybe you invite him for dinner. he should know that if things go wrong, he will break two hearts.
At 21, if the college or your workplace has a toxic environment. Report it. call it out. there is nothing more important than you and your mental peace.
Even after all this time, even when I am old, remember, I always have your back, always.
The things which my mom use to teach me- are the things which I teach my daughter when I become a mother! because after watching my mom I understood that how much it takes to make your daughter strong at every stage and position! whether she is married or unmarried.
SHE IS ALWAYS THERE FOR YOU NO MATTER WHAT!